men and women

The whole idea of having my website .....is to indulge and  jest and  frivolity ......as life is  too short .......when you think about it ........when you have reached 60 ......you are really only 40.....why .........!!! you may ask......... well if you sleep 8 hours a day  ....you have  slept one third of your life .....which really does not  count .....

I believe sleeping is merely charging your body up for  being awake ..........much like a drill  recharging ......so with that in mind.......... if you die at 60 you really died when you are 40 .........in essence  which means my father  died at the young age of 42........

Anyways ........my reason for this rant.......... is to let people know words ............are just words....... and actions are the ones that have a profound effect on  our  lives ......i have said many things .......... which have had reactions to close Friends and  family .....which have  lead to demise .......
the difference between words and  actions.......... say actions do not speak truth ......words  do ......i have  never  ever  said i am the ambassador  for the  human race .......or  the male species .......i like to write  ....rant and blog ....sometimes my rants are peculiar ......laced  with profanities........ and sinister  truths ........i realized that words seem to impact people more than actions ....which i  find  strange ..........i find actions more impacting than words .....words have no physical inertia .....unlike  actions ......words are inanimate  ......

However my point is  ...........i like to  blog i think in my existence.......... i may have done more than 7000 blogs in different  sites .....not sure why ......most of those  have not been liked by many .....loved  by few .....so where i am going  ...is some people  like my stuff .......some  do'nt......and sometimes i just write them to get a reaction ......why!!!! you may ask ......well if truth be known......  its  just to see if  people in general  ..........are  paying attention to details .....and some people are too busy critiquing my blogs ...........and miss the  deeper meaning .....

I call them grammar police ........... for  spending time on something that i write .....and they all fall into the  same slot........ funny that ......

Anyways life is short ......and i may  indulge in topics that may pinch a nerve ......but at the  end of the  day ......none of  us are  getting out of here  alive !!!!!!!....that's a fact ......

A terrifying thought is a woman does not  need a man after he has impregnated her ......that's a scary though ......its the truth many single mums are strong and  tough ....and resilient and i know one  that has  raised three  fantastic  kids  all by herself...........and they have turned out  great ......i applaud  her  and respect her ...she is my best friend ........

we are all  born equal ....and it does not matter  what you have ....you cannot take it with you .....and  you just leave it all behind .....that's life .......whether you are a billionaire  or  poor  we both end up on the same  cold slab.......

so in essence the  starting line....... and the  finish line are   both the same .....funny that !!!!!!

and life  like a  sandwich .....it depends how you  fill whats in between the bread ....

Everyday you get only one chance at life ....there is no dress  rehearsals its one shot ......that's why kids have to be kids .....and when they are ready they will let you know .......

Your actions will always define you ...not your words  ....

Everyday in life ...all you have to  do is  one random act of kindness ......even if its just a smile .....it may change someones day !!!!