love.........pure and utter bollocks .......

I am always  amazed  at the never  ending shows   so called reality about love ......and  cheaters  and  so on  and  so  forth .............

here is a thing !!!!!!........how  can you  Say you  love  someone  ............when you cannot love yourself ...........

if you think about it  ........... if  you  have  no  self  love ............... then   how  do you know  how  to love others  .........

this is  why ............when  women  catch a  man  cheating................ they say i  love him ........... they   do not  know  what the  fuck  they are  talking about ............. they  are  just   fucking desperate  and  lonely  .......

woman always  say i love him ......how  can they  if  they cannot love  who they are 

if you have   no self  esteem .......... or  self love ............ how  can you  even  think of   having a child ..........or  a  husband .............  surely  its like  trying to   cook  .........and you   do not   know  how   to work a  cooker .........

i think  people  are empty ............. and  just looking for  anyone that will  have them...........  because they  cannot fulfill inside  themselves ........... and  that's usually is  desperation ........and  that's  why they let  anyone  cheat and  fuck  them over .............

if you like yourself .......... and who  you  are ......... you are  not  going to settle  for   some  empty headed  insecure  fuck  ....they Will   bring nothing to your mind  ............

if you  are lonely........ and   hate  being by yourself .......... you will take anyone ........ who will have you ........its better  than being  by yourself .........   because  people  hate  being by them,selves.........  because they  cannot stand  themselves ........

desperation  causes  people   to   make  mistakes ......... and  be  with anyone ......... otherwise ........ why would  you not wait ........because  people are  brainwashed  to believe  no one  else  will have them ...... ........

families  use  fear.......  to  get their   sons.........  and  daughters  to  go  get someone  to start a family......... its  how  they  done  it  fear  and  brainwashing  its no lie its a fact ...........

jealousy .........and  insecurity .......are   epidemic   .......people  will some  time   do anything  to avoid being lonely 

you cannot  love  anyone...........  until you are truly  fulfilled  yourself .......its impossible  otherwise  ........

this i  why  kids  are  lost ........their parents  cannot love them ............ because they cannot love them   self  ......... they do not  really know  what the fuck it is ............

when a  woman  catches a man  cheating  .......she  says    but i love him .........  she  has  no idea ..........

  man  mistake  sex  for love ..........  and that's  when it goes  wrong...........  when a  woman  stops   fucking  man ............. he thinks  she  does  not love him  .............

so he finds  another  woman.......... who  will fuck  him and  his  dumb ass thinks  she  loves  him ........   men relate  sex  to love  .............

and  women  are  emotional train wrecks ............ and   do not   think the  man needs  sex  all the time .......... truth in matter  he  does  ...........  


if  woman  done  Little  thing sexually ...........every day with her  man............. he  would not stray........  but they  become complacent.........  and   let  it  fade ............ a smart woman  keeps  a man on his  toes .........

the most loving couples  i have  ever  met ........... are   just  as  hot for  each other ......... and   are  together  .........so go figure  ...........

 its  not new  its  been that way  always  ..........