I grew up seeing how a shite mother does not know how to raise a kid.......
First of all ..........i never had any kids .......i was never brainwashed .........or fed guilt enough to succumb to family pressures ............
and as we all know.......... the girl usually does it to get all the attention ....so that one too ..........and trap some poor bastard.............
The information my father gave me on a regular basis is ..............the The proverbial 4F"S.............or as they would have it in the Vietnam war ........"if it floats ......it flies ....it fucks .......you rent it!!! ........
Of course no one wants you to believe that when you marry that a women............ is going to use the kids as collateral in a divorce .............when the man gets fed up with her pussy .......no!!!!!.........you say .......well there in lies the truth .....again ......sorry !!!!!!!
Brats !!!!!!!!........well when i was growing up .....in Scotland............i watched the two women get married .....and spawn children ..........
unfortunately for my parents ............there journey into grandparent hood........ was a myriad of bribery.............emotional black mail .....and some sort of financial aid of some sort ,,,,,,,,,inorder to keep them them seeing the children .........
This is how i saw what having a kid was all about .....
And not to mention ...........the kid being allowed to destroy the house we lived in............. without ramifications and outcome .........
And till this day.......... it still continues as far as i am led to believe ............nothing changes in these small minded backward towns .........
I will never experience grandparent hood ..........or fatherhood ........i am glad in a sort of way ......... as i do not want fucking crying ..........and moaning when it comes to my day .........its a fucking sham .......
I guess i never left a trail of unwanted children ............only because i saw what the fuck it does ........
Not all families are like this............... but children are fucking hard work .......and today the kids are little fuckers ...........and answer you ........... back i have even seen them hit their mums ..........as young as 3 years old .......
You are tied to your kid.......... until you die .......you never get rid of them ............and when you have grand kids you are used worse........no lies........saw it all the time ...fucking night mare .......
even to a point the situation was so fucking bad ..............the women had to give the child our family name ........... because the father............. was such a fucking loser beyond ........my parents had to look after them .......its disgusting .......only for the selfish pricks to abuse the family name ........
you should not reward your child because it does something.......that its meant to do .... i never was .......
Today's parents do not let their kids have freedom ......... ....which we all know is because there are too many fucking pedos ..........incidentally need hanging for those bastards
And i have said it many times............ the mothers and the sons ...............that's is some sickly obsession ....of course ............... no women will ever be good enough to fuck your son ..........ever !!!!!...........and you have t let them go .........
And daddy's little girl......well old man ...............some fucker is going to bang her .......you see you done the same thing............. you banged a teenager .............an sneaked into the house and done all sorts of shit .......
and now its your turn .....fucking blows huh ............!!!!!!thinking a guy is eating her ass in a parking lot ........who said life is fair !!!!!!!..........
Yep cycle of life ............you done it now its your turn ............but we never thought about ...........it when we were young ........
Sometimes even fathers ......... have wife's the same age as their daughters ..........but that's called fresh pussy in men's term ......that's because you have upgraded to a newer model..........
because of the freeloading ...........empty headed insecure liberals laws have been allowed that a kid can divorce you or charge you .....
we all know it was not a real Man that brought in these laws................ some pussy whipped man under his wife's thumb ......... fat thumb
your kid was last in the marriage ..........but its treated more important than the husband ........
wrong !!!!!............the french do it the right way .....simple .......the kid is last in ........so its treated as such ....
American women have it all wrong.......... they put the kid first .............and this causers problems .........
fact .......this is why there are so many broken marriages and single mums ............ the women put the man last and he accepts it .........
because if he complains ........... he will get it from the families ............ its passed down ............its wrong a child does not run a marriage ..............
never ........... its the demise of a family ..........no kid has that much power ................
and finally.......... the parents have to have some gram of self respect.......... if they do not then it Will pass on to the kids ......
most women regret having kids............ because they missed life ............well when you open your flaps ..........and got jizzed......... you know there is a risk ................simple ......your choice .......you have to be a mum or a choose a motherless life
.....i know a few that never had kids .......... and they are so happy .......i congratulate them ......
but your kid is not the greatest kid on the planet .............an all the bumper stickers are not going to help .............makes sure you spoil the kid with love not material possessions .......
Its easy to buy your kids love and silence ......its harder to spend valuable emotional bonding time ......
As we all know a lot of women have kids for all the wrong reasons .............guilt ..........pressure........ just like weddings ............i have seen it ....... time and time again .....
All you will do............ is pass the legacy on........ and their kids will do the same they will follow suit .......
if they think its okay for you not to have a father they will .......simple .......happens everyday..............
that's not to say the women is wrong......... raising a kid without a father she has no choice .......
but people seem to split........ and fight.........and divorce easier these days ........maybe they think they can do better..........
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5 Reasons Parents Should Never Pay Kids For Doing Chores
For many households, detailed schedules and reward systems are not only necessary to keep the family on track but also kids pitching in from a young age. However, growing up, my house was missing the elaborate chore charts - and the weekly payout that came with them.
While my friends received weekly "allowances" for completing their chores, my siblings and I had to do the work without the pay. If we wanted to save up for something, we could earn money by helping out with "extra" projects or chores, but we were never paid for daily responsibilities like emptying the dishwasher, setting the table, or sweeping the floor. My parents had very clear beliefs that, just like the adults, children should contribute to the household without being rewarded for something that they are expected to do.
Although my mom's antichore payment stance felt brutal at the time, it ended up having a lasting impact on how I now view work, finances, and responsibilities. Monetary incentives can be an effective way to motivate kids to help out, but it just fixes a short-term problem instead of necessarily setting them up for success later in life. This is why parents should separate chores from allowance instead of paying kids each week for doing what they already should be.
- It sends the wrong message. By paying kids to do daily tasks, like brushing their teeth, making their bed, or helping with dinner, you're teaching your child that everything they do in life should come with a reward. Instead of learning how to be a team player or helping out from a sense of obligation, responsibility, or altruism, their efforts are now incentive-based and always with an ulterior (ahem, monetary) motive.
- It makes chores an option. When you set up this system with kids, you're agreeing to pay them if they complete certain tasks. This is great when kids want money, but it gives them the power to opt out of those necessary responsibilities (like walking the dog) if they aren't eager for cash that week. Essentially, getting paid is a weekly or monthly bribe and a repeatedly missed opportunity to teach kids responsibility.
- It warps expectations. When you start consistently paying kids for chores and not just when they take on additional responsibilities, it teaches them to always do something with the expectation of getting something in return. This can set kids up to enter adulthood with a sense of entitlement and belief that they should always get that promotion or raise just for meeting the minimum requirements.
- It can promote micromanaging and dependence. Oftentimes, paying kids for chores requires some version of a weekly checklist as well as oversight that they completed each task. This means that instead of kids taking initiative to do what needs to be done independently, they are managed by mom or dad and start to rely on their praise (or compensation) for each task they complete.
- It muddles allowance and chores. An allowance can be a useful tool to teach kids how to use money and budget responsibly. However, when the payouts are attached to chores, it confuses the lesson and becomes something that they deserve. The focus can morph from learning to save and establish a bank account to this is money they are now "entitled to" and they can do whatever they want with it instead. Even if it is a tight month and parents don't have extra cash, that shouldn't excuse ki
