Tuesday, August 26, 2025

OUT OF THE FRYING PAN ..........

 


Listen !!!!!!......there is  an old  saying  we  say in  UK    maybe  here too ........put of the  frying pan into the  fire  ...........it means.........  you  leave   worse ......... to   go to even shittier........   worse ......and it looks  like these  two   fucked  up..........  proper  fucked up........ i  guess.....i guess   maryland   virginia .......but  look all places up north.........  it  gets   fucking  cold  as  fuck.....  simple  as  that   no  place is good  when there is   winter  up   north  ....hence the reason i live in sunny south flroida .........where the  sun always  shines  ........goody  gumdrops ........


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We left New York City to buy a home in a Maryland beach town. After a few months, we realized we'd made a mistake.

insider@insider.com (Haley Paskalides)
4 min read
  • My husband and I spent more than a decade building a life we loved in New York City.

  • But in our mid-30s, we left in search of a quieter, slower life in a Maryland beach town.

  • Less than a year later, we missed nearly everything about city life and regretted buying our home.

My husband and I lived in New York City for more than a decade. It's where we fell in love, got engaged, and built a beautiful life together. We had a thriving creative community, a friend group we adored, and endless options for food and culture.

But by our mid-30s, the city started to feel less exciting and more exhausting. Our rent had increased significantly over the years, and when our landlord raised it again in April 2024, we decided we'd had enough.

After our lease ended, we decided to temporarily move in with my mom, who lives in a small Maryland beach town about two hours from where I grew up.

We'd loved visiting her on weekends to escape the chaos of the city, and we could picture ourselves living there full time, enjoying more space, morning walks by the ocean, and a calmer version of the life we had in Brooklyn.

So, when we found a newly built house nearby that had everything we wanted, we decided we were ready to buy.

We thought we were making a smart, mature decision — but less than a year later, we started to question whether we'd actually made a huge mistake.

At first, we loved our new home, but we started to regret the move once winter hit

The quietness of the offseason was far more isolating than we'd expected.Haley Paskalides

When we closed on the house in August 2024, everything felt idyllic. We were 10 minutes from the beach and surrounded by bustling restaurants, nonstop outdoor events, and concerts in the park.




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