Well i have been waiting for this one .....the reason i am still single is because 99.9999999999% of all women are fucking mental cases with low self esteem and then couple with the lady bike situation ......the non stop fucking talking and the spooning ..........and the fucking general in built craziness and many many other things ....i like being single .........no shit to deal with.......As they used to say in vietnam .......... ..........if it floats ......it flies ...it fucks .....you rent it ..........
People Are Sharing The Reasons Why They're Still Single, And I'm Genuinely Curious If You Can Relate
A little while back, I wrote up a viral Reddit thread sharing why people were still single — from being heartbroken and independent to inexperienced and more. The responses were so relatable they inspired even more responses from the BuzzFeed Community. Here are a few that show that a lot of us are dealing with the same experiences.
1."I'm single because every time I do date someone, they choose someone else, and I am tired of thinking that I found them, and then they choose someone else, and I'm tired of being used."
2."The men my age I am attracted to are not looking for a strong, intelligent, independent, self-confident, relatively attractive 60-year-old. They want a young, malleable woman without enough life experience to challenge their ego and 'needs' them. I want to be with someone I 'love and want' to be with, not because I 'need' to be with them."
—Anonymous
3."Why am I single? I'm funny, smart, sweet, amazing — I keep getting told. In reality, I'm just a time filler, someone to keep dudes' ego boosted until they move on to someone else. It's cool, though. I started to recognize the pattern and what my role in it was. So I worked on myself and just watched everyone fade away. Just as well, I'm done dimming my light to make someone else feel brighter. If you can match my energy, sweet. If not...you aren't worth my time or attention."
4."My dog is much better company, accepts me as I am, and doesn’t stress me out."
—Anonymous
5."I have a young daughter, and I watch a lot of true crime. I'm not willing to ever have my daughter in a bad situation with someone I brought in. Also, I'm not willing to give up time with her to start dating. Relationships take a lot of time and work, and I would rather have that time with my baby."
6."I think it's because I’m autistic. Maintaining friendships is hard enough, while finding a romantic partner is impossible. More times than not, I have faced rejection from peers as I tend to be too clingy. When someone shows me basic kindness, it makes me feel safe and accepted, making me want to spend as much time as possible with them. Then I get dropped without reason. I want a romantic partner so I have someone I can do things with, as being by myself can be dangerous. I also want children, but with the disability pay gap, it may be hard to provide for even one kid on my own."
—Anonymous
7."It's hard for me to open up and accept that someone might have feelings for me. After seeing what my mom has been through with dating a narcissist, I don't want to risk being taken advantage of like that, either."
8."Those that I like just don’t like me back. No one seems to want to choose me."
—Anonymous
9."There isn’t anything wrong with being single. Being alone doesn’t mean one is lonely. I couldn’t imagine playing the dating field at this point in my life. It seems absolutely exhausting. And with the way the world and economy are, people are working themselves to death just to make ends meet. Student loan payments are sucking up everyone’s money; no one can afford to buy a home, and kids are out of the question for so many. How would anyone find the time to add the stress of finding a relationship on top of all that? I completely get when people say their home is their safe space and they don’t want anyone in it."
10."I have been in two long-term relationships in my life, and they both ended in lies and broken promises; one cheated. Never being able to figure out what I did to deserve that kind of treatment and not recognizing the character flaws in those partners before it went bad have made establishing trust and intimacy nearly impossible. I guess, in a nutshell, I find it easier to be alone. I’m grateful I’m not lonely."
—Anonymous
11."Perhaps it's different for younger people, but for 45+, it's a gender war. Plain and simple. The open hostility toward women from men who have had a sour divorce and yet want to get laid is astonishing."
12."No one ever wanted me that way, and the last guy I asked out (I texted because I was shy) texted back, 'LOL. You must be drunk.' Why even try after that?"
—Anonymous
13."I'm single mostly due to my mental health. I hate being single, but I know for a fact no one could stand my mental health issues in a relationship. I've been through so much trauma in my life that I'm honestly just a walking mental illness at this point, and it wouldn't be fair to a partner. I would just cause them to burn out, and I would probably traumatize them, too. It sucks to be totally alone, but it's for the better."
14."Any messes I clean up are mine alone; I have sole ownership of the remote when I watch television, and when I need/want it quiet, I turn it off, and I get the entire bed. I enjoy the solitude. I can’t understand people who feel they need another in their life to feel complete. I’m 65 and loving my life."
—Anonymous
15."In my case, I approach women often every week, but it has not worked for me. I dress well, communicate well, and have money and houses. Girls either ignore you, don't text back, or give you the runaround. They have zero intentions of getting to know you."
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