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Listen i am not sure who is  reading my shit .......but i know that being single  is better than putting up with somones yapping .....bullshit  ....crap ....drama ...and constant bollocks that c0mes with dating ......and of course being single is  way way cheaper  ..........and no one to answer to or give an explanation to ........ just  because i want ass.......which is  never  ever promised  especially in a relationship ........ which most guys think they are getting every time they meet someone new ...... but after the  dust settles ....and the honeymoon period is over ......usually about 6 months or thereabout  when they move in ........reality overtakes the honeymoon period ........been there so so many times ......it entrapment disguised as lust ......in the beginning every man thinks he  has  met the  ideal woman .......because its all about sex ....drinking eating ....etc ........... doing it in fun places ........but its  just a phase at the beginning of  all relationships........just the truth ..........

I've learned to enjoy dining solo after years of practice. Here are 7 tips for anyone who feels nervous to eat out alone.

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I keep practicing the skill of dining solo.Rachel Askinasi/Insider
  • I've had a lot of solo meals over the past decade.

  • Looking back on it, I realize it's a skill that requires lots of practice.

  • From where to sit to what you can bring, here are seven tips I think can help anyone get more comfortable dining alone.

I've eaten alone at restaurants a lot for my job over the past two years, but it's also something I've done since college. Whenever I'm asked about a solo meal I had, I'm consistently met with the reaction of, "Oh my gosh, I could never," or "I wish I could do that." The reality is, if you want to, you totally can.

Thinking about it now, I've realized it certainly is a skill. But it's a skill I believe anyone can sharpen if they're willing to put in the work and feel uncomfortable along the way.

Here are some of the things I've learned that help me get to a place where I do enjoy going out by myself.

Solo dining isn't just for single people who don't have local friends

If you hold that idea in your head, pack its bags and kick it right out the door.

I've dined alone while single, in a relationship, and while being offered other plans with the friends I do very much have. Sometimes I just need to take myself out and be reminded that I can function — quite well! — as a single entity whenever I choose to do so.

And guess what? There's also nothing wrong with dining or going out solo if you are in a situation where you don't feel like you have people to socialize with. In fact, it's a great way to meet people. Maybe you moved somewhere new or are in the process of making new friends. (If that's you, congratulations!) But that's a whole other set of tips for a different skill to learn.

Don't be so hard on yourself

In a world where everything revolves around showing off what you're doing and who you're with, it can feel really taxing to do things on your own if you're not already into it. But it's OK to feel awkward, to push yourself, and to try taking tiny steps in the direction of being more independent.

 

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